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Socializing to Explore Oneself!

Akka, does that mean socializing is very important to explore ourselves? (*Akka means elder sister in Kannada) This was the question my sister's friend asked me when she read one of my blog ( ' Re-discovering Myself - Har ki Dun '; it was about how I found more about myself during the trek with strangers).  She is one of my regular reader; and always provides some feedback or follow up on my blog posts. I had to think about it a bit. Analyze my perception.  I say YES.  We won't know a lot about ourself until we don't let elements of nature play with our soul. What irritates us, what pleases us, what angers us, what disheartens us - in simple terms what effects us and how we react to that; defines our personality. It not only shapes our personality but it also helps in introducing us to our true self; like holding a mirror at our face so we can see who we truly are. For instance, I have been staying alone without roommates for few ...

Who are you?

Who are you? Where are you?   Are you still somewhere in my future whom I am yet to cross my paths with? Or are you somewhere in my past whom I have already met as someone or ignored as no-one? Is there still a second chance for my heart to beat in rhythm of love? Or have I already missed the last train to that station? Will I be sharing the rest of my life with you? Or am I already leading a happy one without you? What is more crazy - to think about you who I don't know about? or to not know in my heart whether I really want to think about you? Why is everyone so sure that you exist? And why is it that I just don't care to bet whether you do or do not exist?  Have I become insensitive to the art of love? Or it's just that I have stopped planning for unknowns? What will I do when I see you? Will my heart know and my eyes fall in love at the first sight of you? or my mind will start cautiously treading the waters? Are you the ...