I Love You!

"I love youuuu!!" I screamed over the FaceTime call.

"I love you toooo!!" came an echo, in an equally excited voice.

"I love you more Amma" I said laughing at her exaggerated reply.

"I love you beta" she said giving a dramatic smile.

My mom and I speak in Kannada, but there are times like this when we get all dramatic with english dialogues.

And then she goes on to say in Kannada "Yeah, yeah, this is what we will do is it? We will keep telling one another I love you for rest of our lives? You will not find anyone else for yourself to say this??"

I give her a flying kiss saying "Oh, I don't need anyone else when I have you."

But then I get naughty and ask her "Have you ever told Papa "I love you"?"

When she does not answer, I ask again, "Tell na Amma"

She has that cute blushing smile when she says "Yes, I have told him, many a times"

"No, not in Kannada. I am asking, have you told in English - I Love You?" I said pushing her harder.

Then she goes "Yeah yeah in english, kannada, hindi all languages. Don't you have work to do? And I need to put my phone on charging,"

And that's how she slaps all possible excuses on me with a huge grin to end this conversation. And I actually had a meeting to attend (since we are on opposite sides of the Earth these days...grr), so I had to tell her good night and drop the call. But I loved seeing her light up like that.

Love has many names, many forms, but one thing that's common is, how it always brings a smile on your face when you think of it. And that's regardless of what generation you belong to.

Here's a toast to celebrating love of all kinds.

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