Dream with Your Eyes Open...

Why dreaming with your eyes open is important?

Because that is the starting point for your brain to come up with ideas and heart to ignite a spark and channelize energy in that direction. If you don't dream, your brain doesn't have any reason to think in that direction, your heart doesn't have any reason to feel excited, your eyes will not be able to see any new opportunities and you end up in your routine not doing anything new. And all of a sudden, you will be left cribbing as to why your friends are living their dream and you are left doing nothing.

For e.g. I kept dreaming about having a huge art gallery of my own with beautiful paintings. That dream was around for few years, on and off. It was when I had never picked up a paint brush ever in my life. Then for sometime, I kept thinking, let me atleast try once; if I can paint at all? That was enough of an inspiration for me to go and buy canvas and acrylic paint kit one day. Then I started learning painting during my free time from YouTube and Google. I started getting better at it. Then I started learning new techniques; oil painting with brush, then with Palette and Knife. Its been 3 years that I have invested in learning painting. Now I make time whenever I feel like painting. I have my apartment look like a small art studio with my paintings covering all the walls. It's a start right? Now I know I can paint, and I can paint really well. If I invest my time seriously in it, I can make a career out of it as well. That's the confidence that has built over time. Now, having an art gallery of my own is no longer a fantasy; I know it can be a reality if I work in that direction.

One of the walls of my hall..

Once one dream comes true, you end up dreaming more and getting more out of life.

I had a bunch of my dreams come true and trust me when they do, you will realize how beautiful life is.

Fantasies can be a reality if you really want to make it one.

Life happens only once, and it does not cost anything to dream. So fill your world with fantasies.

Dare to Dream. Dare to Live. Dare to make your dreams a reality!!

-Sarita
Dated - 21st Dec 2015.

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When Silence Speaks...

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