Amma, Me and a serious funny conversation!

I FaceTimed my mom this morning, (her night) and kind of had a funny conversation. She was suffering from fever early in the week and is just recovering. We had enough pampering conversations before this. So here it goes.

Amma - My head hurts like hell, it just doesn't go away.

Me - You know what Amma, when you meet Chitragupta*, that Yama's* assistant or whatever, ask him why is he making you suffer with headache. Obviously no doctors here have a solution for your headache, you have been dealing with it for so many years now.

Amma - (smiling) Chitragupta hmm.

Me - Yeah, he should have a reason right for making you go through this headache.

Amma - He won't know, he just keeps record of all our karma in this world. Brahma* is the one who writes the fate, of what we will be in this world.

Me - Oh yeah, Chitragupta is the balance sheet guy, he keeps track of our actions, right. So then you should ask Brahma. But he is so old and he is so slow, by the time he actually answers you, you might have finished your next 3 janmas. No use.

Amma - You want me to talk to Brahma , Chitragupta and all. Hmm.

Me - As in if you reach there before me then you ask, if I reach before you, I will ask. But one of us will definitely have to ask about this, it's the only thing bothering you so much for years now. We shouldn't let it go.

Amma - Yeah that's correct (Smiling)

Me - You know what, you should infact still talk about this with Chitragupta. You should negotiate with him saying, you have already suffered on earth due to this headache for whatever wrongdoings you have ever committed. So he cannot punish you anymore. He should balance it off.

Amma - Yeah right, if he says I am going to put you in boiling oil and all; I can say this.

Me - Yeah, there should be some use of all the sufferings you have been through right. kuch toh fayda hona chahiye na. And if he doesn't listen call me, I will be your lawyer.

Amma - (Laughing) You are such a dramebaaz. Fine, we will talk to Chitragupta and his uncles.

Me - You know your daughter is the bestest nautanki na.

Amma - Yeah, yeah. I love you, you take care. (kisses the phone)

Me - Good night Amma. I love you!

And, it's amazing how Amma has changed over the years after Dad passed away. These were the kind of conversations I would have with my dad, we were never scared of talking about death. But Amma would always shut us up, calling it inauspicious. And today, she participated in this drama and enjoyed it too. For an orthodox hindu mom, she is doing great :) I am proud of her.

For my non Hindu friends - I have included wiki links; Brahma - Creator of the world., Yama - Lord of Death and caretaker of Hell, Chitragupta - Lord of justice, record keeper of our actions.

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